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The Flight of Time

Last week, I decided today would be the day I’d settle back into blogging. I knew I’d been on a break. But it wasn’t until just now that I realized how much of a break I’d taken. I haven’t been around here since August. Wow. That’s seven-and-a-half months. More than half of a year has passed.

In that time, we’ve closed our small business, moved across the state, settled in, and celebrated a few birthdays. I’m glad to say that all the changes have worked out for the best. (Even the fact that I turned 29 again…) And I’m back here and on Twitter with a renewed sense of purpose.

I didn’t intend to take this long of a break, but I think it’s what I needed. Sometimes, we have to step back from things–even useful and good and enjoyable ones–to prioritize, to rest (even God took a break on the seventh day, and we don’t do it enough in our microwave-speed society), and to gain perspective. Sometimes a break helps us see things with fresh eyes.

As a writer, I’ve taken a few breaks. I even sat aside a manuscript for more than a year while I figured out how to be a new mom. Before that break, I plugged along at the book because I knew the plot was good. But every word was like a root canal. I struggled to get into the characters and to move the story along. After my break, I flew through the book. I had a new perspective. I realized that I liked these characters and what they needed to say. I heard their voices loud and clear. And now, I’m excited to say, the book has gone through several revisions (most of that “root canal writing” got cleaned out) and is with an agent who is considering it. And just last week, I put fingers to keyboard on that next book.

Sometimes, just like an ice cold Dr Pepper, a break hits the spot. In the case of blogging and Twitter, I’m glad to be back with you. The new blog schedule I’m proposing for myself is Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday–the heart of the week. I’ll be talking about the things that matter in this corner of the world: faith, friends, family, and a few words on the page (aka the writer’s journey). I hope you’ll join me.

See you tomorrow for a few words on praying when you can’t find the words.

Eleanor Rigby and an Eggroll

Last night, my husband and I stopped with The Toddler for dinner at this little hole-in-the-wall Chinese restaurant we love. Only one other patron was inside, but as soon as we sat down, she struck up conversation with us.

Because The Toddler has a head full of curly red hair, I’m quite used to strangers saying things to us in public places. Everyone comments on her hair. And quite often, there’ll be a little more chit-chat before we get on with whatever we’re doing.  But last night, the lady at the table in the corner just kept talking. It started with a comparison of eggrolls at various other restaurants in town, but somehow turned to Hurricane Ike.

I learned everything about her Ike journey, from the evacuation, to the loss of her pets, to premature births in her family, and so much more. Every time the conversation seemed to dwindle, she found new details to share. I may know more about her Ike story than I do my own. About the time our food arrived at the table, another two hungry folks walked in, and she struck up a conversation with them.

After dinner, my husband asked me if I thought she was a little nutty. I thought for a minute, and said, “no, I think she’s very lonely.” She carried on a conversation with everyone in there–except the employees, who speak mostly Chinese (and probably used that fact as a defense mechanism in this case.) What struck me the most was the way she kept offering other topics of conversation after one would wind down.

Clearly, Ike had been the watershed event in her life that it had been in ours. But she seemed to still need to work through the events, to process them. You could almost hear the lines of “Eleanor Rigby” in the background. “All the lonely people…where do they all come from?”

There are billions of people in this world, but so many of them live lonely lives, whether from circumstance or choice. And when life’s storms come, lonely people have nowhere to turn. No other voices to help sort through the mess. No sympathetic ears just to listen.

Is it the person who slipped into church at the last minute and sat quietly by themselves, never making eye contact with the others in the sanctuary. Is it your co-worker who always eats lunch alone? Is it that family member who was at the center of a rift…but it’s been so long that no one really remembers what that rift was about?

Who are the lonely people in your path? How can you reach out to them? We are called by Christ to live in community, and that’s not just defined as “church.” It may even be your local Chinese food restaurant.

Friend Friday: An Interview With Author K. Dawn Byrd

I’m so excited to have another author with us for an interview this week. Today, I’m chatting with author K. Dawn Byrd, whose latest release is out this month. You’ll want to pick up this page-turner.

Your second book, Killing Time, is releasing in August from Desert Breeze Publishing. It looks like a page-turner, with a wrongfully-incarcerated heroine trying to unravel a crime while she’s behind bars. Where did you get your inspiration for the story?

I’ve always been an avid reader and planned to write a book “one day.” When I began work as a counselor in a jail, I thought that would be a neat setting for the book. I began to jot down notes about the environment such as sights, sounds, and smells. Before I knew it, my heroine had formed in my mind, begging me to tell her story.

We all come to love our characters as we write them. What stands out to you about Mindy and Drew, and without giving the whole plot away, what do you hope your readers take away from their story?

My hero, Drew Stone, is a counselor at the jail where Mindy is incarcerated. He’s still grieving the death of his wife when he meets my Mindy and after falling for her, back away because of guilt of doing a disservice to his wife’s memory and because dating an ex-inmate could cost him his job. Even though he’s a Christian, he’s dropped out of church and knows that he needs to get back in.

Mindy, who was raised by her grandfather preacher after the death of her parents in an automobile accident, is a very strong Christian. However, being incarcerated tests her faith to the limit. Even though she becomes angry with God, she retains her faith, realizing that He’s with her even in her darkest hour.

What is your favorite part about writing romantic suspense?

I love romantic suspense because the suspense keeps the plot moving and the romance is just icing on the cake.

This is your second book with Desert Breeze Publishing. Can you talk about your journey to publication?

My journey to publication wasn’t all that long. I started writing about three years ago and Killing Time was my first novel. I must have edited it a dozen times as I learned the craft. I was told by an agent that Killing Time might be hard to sell because she wasn’t sure if many women would want to read a book partially set in a jail. Desert Breeze loved it and I hope my readers do too.

What’s your advice to writers pursuing publication? For example, what’s the one organization they should join? The one blog they must read? Who should they follow in social media?

Learn everything you can about the craft (I’m still learning!) and don’t ever give up. Write something every day and you’ll be amazed at your word count at the end of the month. If you have a story on your heart, write it and revise as often as is needed to get it to publishable quality.

Anything else? You’re e-published…maybe something about e-publishers?

I believe ebooks are the wave of the future. Since I’ve learned how to read them, I seldom buy print. I read them on my netbook and my Blackberry. I think they’re changing the publishing industry forever. I don’t fear print books disappearing. I believe there will always be room for them and I’m glad for that because occasionally a book comes along that I love so much that I must have it in print.

Want to buy your own copy of Killing Time and find out all about Mindy and Drew? Click here.

God’s Wake-Up Call: Rise and Shine!

“Arise, shine, for your light has come, and the glory of the Lord rises upon you.” (Isaiah 60:1, NIV)

I’ve never been a morning person. I can wake up early. I just prefer not to. And in fact, I find I do a lot better if I don’t have to listen to the squawk of an alarm clock, so my clock wakes me up to the peaceful sounds of a stream or birds chirping.

But then I had a child. She’s been my alarm clock since before she was even born, waking me up at all sorts of random hours. Lately, she’s settled into a routine of waking up around 8:30, which is perfect for me. But no one’s accused me of being a fast mover, even after I get up. I like my routine and I don’t consider myself fully awake until after my shower. This is three-fold. One, I do my best thinking in the shower, so I get my thoughts in order for the day. Two, I like being clean. Three, I don’t drink coffee, so the shower is my Starbucks. (For the record, I like to do my quiet time in the evenings.)

God’s wakeup call for us is even better than a warm shower or a gently chirping bird. He brings His glory to rest on us. Why do we get up in the mornings? To shine. To reflect His light throughout the day to a world which needs His love. To further His kingdom and His purposes in our lives.

What a different perspective than the usual “I owe, I owe, it’s off to work I go” or “Is it Friday yet?” that most of us wake up thinking. We are given another day to reflect God’s glory. WOW.

Could you hop out of bed for that?

Added bonus: Friend my fellow Galvestonian “Billyblues G-townsurf” on Facebook. Billy Hill is a local Realtor here in Galveston who posts the most amazing pictures of early morning on Galveston Island on his Facebook feed. You will totally be blessed by his pictures of God’s glory here on the Island. You can also find his pictures and surf reports on his website.

Writer Wednesday: Grab the Scissors!

Last week, I got a new haircut. My awesome stylist was excited to give me a new ‘do just like the picture I brought in. The only problem: I don’t have enough hair to pull it off right now. I’m a short-hair kind of girl, but I’m striving for chin-length in the near future.  So to get my hair in position for this brave new chin-length world, Annie spent a lot of time cutting the various layers and angles into my chocolate mop. Now, as it grows, it will begin to fall into the correct style.

At the end of the haircut, which lasted almost 2 hours, Annie told me that if I went to another stylist, she’d charge me $500 next time I came in because of all the precision work she’d put into the cut. She didn’t want to have to start over with someone else’s layers.

The time and effort Annie spent on my new style made me think about a very basic step we all have to conquer as writers: editing. Every writer has to hone their skills at cutting and trimming the excess in our words as much as crafting those words to begin with.

My background is editing. I have a technical writing degree and I used to run a magazine for a Fortune 50 corporation. I actually am one of those freaks who love a good red pen. One of my professional strengths is “cleaning” copy–making it stronger and tighter without changing the meaning of the writer.

Sometimes, our stories need a professional editor, especially before we submit them to an agent or publisher or enter them in a contest. (If you’re looking for professional editing, send me a note. I’d love to help you.)

But as writers, we also need to develop self-editing skills. Passive vs. active voice, point-of-view continuity, sentence structure, “padding” words, and the dreaded show vs. tell are just a few of the rules we need to look for. There are a lot of great self-editing books out there for authors to study.

Keep in mind, though, that self-editing is a detailed process. You won’t catch everything on the first read-through. Or the second. Or the third. But like all the time Annie spent sculpting and shearing my new hairstyle, the time spent is worth it. Not only does it help you present your best product to the professionals in the industry, each round of editing is like a class where you learn what to look for so you can organically incorporate it into your writing. Good editing helps you become a better writer as you actually put the words on the page.

Writers, share your favorite editing books and websites below. What are your best tips? Let’s help each other out!

Training to Achieve Your Potential

If you follow me on Twitter, you’ll know that I’m currently tackling one of the milestones of toddler parenting: potty training.  This is The Toddler’s second go-round with the potty. She first tackled it as a baby. Yes, from two months until one year, probably 1/3 of her daily activity actually happened in an infant potty. I maybe…maybe changed 10 dirty diapers in a year.  She took to it like the proverbial duck to water.

But then, at her first birthday, around the time she began to gain real awareness of change and personal boundaries, we moved back into our house in Galveston. That big change–for six months, we’d lived with my parents in their home while ours was rebuilt–along with the entry of more solid foods, pretty much landed a death knell on our time with the infant potty.

Sad Mommy moment. In the 18 months since, she’s more than made up for that “only 10 dirty diapers” thing.

So, here we are at Potty, Part 2. She expressed an interest in it last week, but this is the first time I’ve been at home, uninterrupted, for a few days to really give it a go.  It took a while to find the right bribery. Crayola Color Wonder markers became our go-to potty activity of choice late yesterday. And Emily’s Balloon by Kamoko Sakai is our preferred reading.

I’ve had lots of time to just sit the last day and a half, and as I have, I’ve reflected on this experience. Potty training is an activity that is certainly for The Toddler’s own good. It will make her more independent. But to get there, she needs to give up the security of the diaper, a constant on her rump for the last 2 1/2 years.  Using the potty is different than using a diaper, though the end result is the same. She has to learn that different can be better.

And so do we all.  So often, God stretches our horizons through activities which seem a little pointless to us. Using the potty probably seems a little ridiculous to  The Toddler. After all, the diaper works. And it’s portable. She doesn’t have to stop what she’s doing and get on the potty.

A lot of times, what we’re doing works, too. But does God want more from us? Do we have to give up a little convenience to gain independence? Did we start doing something, then stop because the change was too much? Is God telling you to get back to it now?

In the end, being potty trained will open up a whole new world for The Toddler, a world where she can go places and achieve her potential.  And in the end, being where God wants us to be will help us achieve our potential in His economy. Sometimes, a little training is all it takes to make the difference He planned for us at the beginning of time.

An Interview With Author Kristine McGuire

I have a special guest today here on the blog. Kristine McGuire is the author of Escaping the Cauldron, a book about her journey through the occult and the redeeming power of Jesus Christ. I’m excited to get to share her powerful testimony with you.

What is the book about?

The book is part testimony of how I went from committed, albeit legalistic, Christian for twenty-nine years to witch, medium, and ghost hunter for eight years before God restored my faith and life. It details my personal struggle with trying to be “the perfect Christian” while being drawn to the Occult from childhood. The book is also a Biblical study that examines the current pop-cultural interest in the occult (in particular ghosts, hauntings, and mediums) and how this interest is affecting Christians as well as their beliefs about the supernatural.

Why call it Escaping the Cauldron?

This is actually the first book in a series, What Christians Need to Know about the Occult. It is a series of collections written from my former experiences as a witch, medium, and ghost hunter. This book is primarily about ghost hunting, mediumship, and the paranormal but I chose “Escaping the Cauldron” as the main title because witchcraft was truly my entry into the arena of occult interest and exploration including such things as divination, psychic ability, spirit guides, mediumship, ghost hunting, etc.

What do you think is the most important chapter of the book?

I think there are many important chapters but “Spiritual Warfare” and “How Should Christians Respond?”are the two which take everything discussed in the previous chapters bringing it all together, helping the reader understand their authority in Jesus Christ and leading the way to a ready defense for any kind of paranormal or supernatural event they may experience in their life as a Christian.

What do you hope to accomplish with this book?

I hope to inform and equip Christians with information about the occult. Additionally I pray the church will begin to acknowledge the presence of the spiritual world around us and listen to people who come forward with stories or claims of paranormal experiences without dismissing them immediately. When the church refuses to listen or offer any Biblical assistance, many people are forced to seek help elsewhere. This generally means seeking out ghost hunters, mediums, and psychics. I also hope to encourage Christians who may be questioning their faith to seek a deeper relationship with God, especially if they are stuck in a form of legalism. Our answers truly can be found in Jesus Christ.

Where is the book currently available to purchase?

The book is available in paperback and Kindle editions at Amazon. The book is also available in paperback and e-book editions at my blog site: Kristine ReMixed at www.KristineMcGuire.com andLulu Publishing.

How are you available to the Christian community?

I write a daily blog, Kristine ReMixed at www.KristineMcGuire.com, on a variety of topics including faith, marriage, prayer, spiritual gifts, and the occult. I also work with my husband through Big Fish Ministries at www.BigFishMinistries.com, ministering through speaking with him at church and para-church events about marriage, facilitating seven day or special event prayer rooms, helping the homeless, etc. I am also available to speak at any youth, women’s, or church events on a variety of Christian topics.

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Author Kristine McGuire

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Creative Cash for Conference: Ideas for Going to ACFW National Conference

It’s Conference Time! Romance Writers of America (RWA) is having their annual conference in Orlando this coming week, and the American Christian Fiction Writers (ACFW) annual conference is just around the corner. It’s going to be held this year from September 17-20 in Indianapolis, Indiana. If you’re a Christian writer, like me, I bet you want to be there. And if the economy’s been a little tough for you, I bet you’re wondering how you can afford to go.

As I’ve been wondering the same thing, I’ve come up with a few ideas you might want to try too…

1) Airfare- Do you have a friend who works for an airline? Airline employees get standby flight passes. If someone you know has one they’re not using, they might pass it on to you. One of my oldest friends works for Southwest and she generously shared enough passes for a roundtrip flight. Sure, I will have to fly standby and won’t have my choice of ideal flight times…but I do have the ideal price! My friend has said she’ll work with me to get the best schedule. And, if I don’t wind up being able to go, I can just return the passes to her for her own use.

2) Conference Fee- The cost for the full conference is $515. That’s not cheap–but it is a bargain for the opportunity to learn from the best, meet editors and agents face-to-face, and interact with other writers who speak your language. So, now that we’ve established that…how do you find the money in your budget? One way I’ve been working on is inspired by Dave Ramsey: “sell so much stuff the kids think they’re next!”

I used to sell Mary Kay to earn some extra money. When my daughter arrived, I slowed way down, and now I don’t sell at all. But I still have lots of inventory on my shelves. I sold enough of it at 75% of retail to earn half of my conference fee in one afternoon! A friend was having a garage sale, and she let me put my stuff out on one of the tables. I just had to pitch in $5 for advertising. (Okay, and I wound up buying a back-up car seat.) Ebay has been great for moving the remainder, plus some other things around the house I just don’t have the space for.

Many local chapters offer partial scholarships to the conference. If you qualify, don’t hesitate to apply. You don’t know how God wants to use you at this conference and what He has in store for you. Don’t let pride keep you from applying. Let the people who have so generously given to these scholarship programs have their opportunity to be a blessing to a deserving person.

3) Hotel– I know, ideally, you’ve gotta be at the conference hotel. But maybe you’re having trouble finding a roommate and the price of the room is cost-prohibitive for you to do by yourself. Look for other area hotels. Maybe there are some other nearby hotels that you can stay at  and take  a quick cab ride to and from. You could get a better rate or might even be able to use some points you have saved up on a card. (I don’t use credit cards anymore…see the earlier Dave Ramsey quote, so this one isn’t an option for me!)

Sometimes it takes being creative to advance our careers. Getting to a national conference like ACFW’s is a great career builder. It can open doors that an e-mail in the slush pile never can do. And if you can’t make it, start looking for local and regional conferences you can meet targeted agents and editors at. You won’t regret the investment in yourself.
What creative things do you do in order to pay for writing-related expenses? What tips do you have for getting to this year’s ACFW conference?

Writer Wednesday: Welcome Back Edition

Hi, Friends!

It’s been a while, huh? Thanks for coming back over to the blog today. I’m celebrating the return of the Internet to Casa Ethridge after a long and painful forced break (thanks local ISP folks).

Often when I dive into something–like my return here–I find myself paralyzed by everything and nothing. I have a hundred different thoughts in my head, and in the interest of wanting to not lose any good ideas, I can procrastinate myself into a hole. But I can justify it as trying to make the best decision.

We can do that with our writing, too. Especially if we’ve taken some time away.

(Quick Journey karaoke interlude: “Everybody needs a little time away, I have to say…from each ooooother…”)

There’s nothing wrong with taking a break–forced or unintentional–but it’s what we do with our return that counts. If you’ve taken a break from writing, I encourage you to dive back in. Don’t wade into the shallow end of the pool. It’s tempting. Less splash. Less potential for embarrassment. But way less fun. There’s no way that tiptoeing down the stairs can possibly equal the rush of air blowing past you as you leave the diving board and the crack of the water as you break the surface.

I’ve recently started writing in chunks that the Twitterverse has dubbed #1k1hr. This means taking at least an hour a day to write at least a thousand words. Because my goal is to write 1,000 words a day and my toddler will usually take at least an hour’s nap, this is a great project for me. And through posting on Twitter when I’m diving into my #1k1hr pool, I’ve gotten to meet and get support from a great community of other authors.

I don’t always have time to write the big chunks of the story like I want to. I’d love to be able to sit all day and focus on nothing but writing. But that would require hiring a nanny. And that would require a paycheck. It’s a vicious cycle.

But instead of making excuses, I do what I can. We all can do what we can. Every day of #1k1hr gets me 1,000 words closer to my goal. I’m writing a 60,000-word category romance. If I remain consistent in #1k1hr, that 60,000-word manuscript gets written in two months. Now, I’m realistic and I know I’ll have to take some time away (cue the Journey again) for a day here or a day there. Even if I take off a months’ worth of days, I can still get my project complete in three months. That’s what consistency does for you. It gives you a plan and a means to achieving a goal.

When you take a break, what helps you get back on track? What are your daily writing goals? How do you make sure you’re achieving them–do you take part in #1k1hr or something similar? Post some comments below and give some ideas for your fellow authors!

And thanks for reading and welcoming me back!

Writer Wednesday: The Job Interview

Do you remember when you were young and people asked what you’d like to be when you grew up? Maybe a firefighter or a teacher. Or, if you were me, you decided to be a pediatric surgeon. (I even stuck with it from age 5 until college, when I realized that medical school was cost-prohibitive for someone who thought they’d ultimately like to be a stay-at-home-mom.)

What they never told you as a kid was how much prep work went into actually getting the job. The same is true of writing. Even though it’s a pretty solitary gig, one you can accomplish 90% of while still in your pajamas, you still have to treat it as a professional job. And the first gateway to getting any job is the job interview.

In the case of publishing, the gatekeeper isn’t HR. It’s agents and editors. And you have to treat them the same as you would with anyone you asked for a job.

I see a lot of agents, especially, in the tweetosphere and blogosphere talking about crazy query letters. There are even websites dedicated to them, like Query Shark , which allows other writers to critique and hone queries, and the legendary-but-now-silent Miss Snark.

Writers, your query letter is the literary equivalent of cover letter and resume. It’s a tough job market. Printing resumes on pink scented paper might have worked for Elle Woods, but it doesn’t work in the real world. Following agent and publisher guidelines when you query demonstrate that you’re a professional. That you’ve done your basic homework. That you’re someone they would enjoy working with.

In the world of HR, someone who doesn’t meet the requirements on paper doesn’t get called for a job interview. In writing, someone who doesn’t meet the requirements on paper doesn’t get asked for a partial or a full.

If you mass-query agents, send them books which aren’t in the genres they represent, or otherwise brand yourself as someone who isn’t professional, they have every right to decline your query right then and there. They’re looking for business partners. Because whatever else publishing may be, it’s a bottomline dollars-and-cents business.

And that’s okay with me. I figure it’s okay with you too, assuming you’re like me and would like to make some money off your writing. The English major in me loves the romanticized idea of F. Scott Fitzgerald writing at some Parisian cafe or Lord Byron running off to Italy for inspiration. If that’s why you write, that’s fantastic. And you can still have success on your terms through self-publishing. There are so many venues today in which to get your work into the hands of readers.

But I write because I want it to be my career, not my hobby. That’s why I attend writer’s groups and conferences. It’s why I polish my manuscript for contests. It’s why I try as hard as I can to make my daily word count. I’m treating this as a profession, not something I play at like my husband plays golf.

And above all, I try to be professional when seeking out business partners. Agents and publishers are the key to building my career as a writer. I want to partner with the best for my career path. That’s why I only query agents who work with the type of manuscripts I write. I need someone who knows my market and has built relationships. And that’s why I follow guidelines.

The Bible says “study to show yourself approved…” (2Tim 2:15, KJV) Seeking out agents and publishers for your work is no different. Study what’s expected by agents and editors you’re interested in…that will help win their approval. The writing wins over all, but it’s up to each of us to use every advantage we have to get that job interview.